"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AnimeAddict

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I think I give up with reporting in everyday. It seems that this thread doesn't have any more activity on it and I just feel like I'm beating a dead horse (no pun intended). All I could say in closing is that this challenge is harder than it seems and really all you probably need is just something to distract you just like any other bad habit. Anyway, it's been fun. I'll catch you all later.

Good luck everyone,

AA, Out of here.

From the beginning
Attempt 2 day 5
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Groovy

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I don't report because it's summer and I am all over the place! Maybe no fapping contributed to my amazing energy. ;) I just came back from one hour jogging. I jog 1 hour 5/6 days of the week now. Today is day 20. I am feeling nice, starting to get lower energy tho, a sign that this raises testosterone. So I must do more exercise! I feel nice. As master lam says, when you do Tai Chi, your mind will be like the water of a deep river, calm, even tho that the surface has moving waters. I do Tai Chi almost every day (been busy going out as well, and the beach + dog! Summer time!).
 

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I feel good this morning. Did a jog session at 4AM this morning. Got ready for work and on my way now. No anxiety. Ready for today. I've been on vacation and been in the house a lot during that period. So that certainly helped me continue fapping. But now I'm back to work to see actual females, so here we go! DAY 1...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here I go. Jogging this morning. Day 1. Feel tired but good at the same time. Anxiety is low but then again I'm not at work yet. But here goes.
 

Groovy

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I haven't been on the pc in a while... yesterday no PC at all, for example. Today I am here 20 minutes and already I am starting to get urges! WOW internet, you are powerful! Hahaha. I mean, just SITTING on the pc makes me want to go see chicks!
I'm still continuing this challange until I feel 100% amazing mentally and physically. I am not gonna fap until I get erections all the time! Let's do this, guys!
I've been eating more the last days. I feel great, want to get even better. Day 5. I'm feeling better then I was feeling in a long time, because of the new changes in my diet.
I have more muscles and feel more fresh. Feel kind of powerful, yet calm, and manly. I ooze cool energy. I'm sure there must be a bunch of you like me, right? How's the challange going for you guys?

I want even more confidence!
 

NobodyCares1

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I'm at a week 4 right now, though I have doubts about not fapping for too long, I don't want any unexpected wet dreams, I mean seriously :down:

So the question is to FAP or not to FAP?
 

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I don't know why people are saying they're fapping in a No Fap thread.

If you're fapping because you lack discipline, then this thread is not for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All I gotta say is that this challenge is super ****ing hard (no pun intended) when your horny all day.

My mind kept drifting to banging the new receptionist we got today at work. HB9. Tried really hard not to think about it. Got home and all was good till I started drifting off again and I just couldn't take it anymore. I needed some release.

I have definitely felt what alot of guys on here have said, about an increase in aggression towards the opposite, being less passive, more confident, ect. when I haven't nutted in a long time.

I can only think of showering and going to the gym as distractions. But going to the gym is a routine thing so I can't just get up and go, considering it would be pointless if I have already gone earlier. Also I get even more horny after I get back from the gym.

Any one got any other methods of stopping M?
 

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I'm in for no fap challenge, starting today....ready set...GO!!

Day 1 = Complete. :)
 

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honestly I did this for a year once. Im not gonna lie it certainly improved me greatly and was despite I was a massive AFC....i was far more social even with females than i ever was.

I really succumbed due to depression + stress + I had just moved and didnt like the area and when i did the no fapping I had deleted all my porn and I managed to stumble across some I didnt delete simply because i had hidden that crap so well.

temptation and boredom got the better of me mixed with stress depression and a new area.

I managed to go another year after that 1-2 week crash. but this was different this time I was too weak to delete the porn so it sat there knowingly for a year.

I then went only 5-6 months.... and finally due to a million reasons i crashed. mental break down from everything. porn reentered the life and hasnt left since.

not gonna lie i prefer the no fapping. my mind was certainly a lot clearer and I was a lot healthier.

I did this following the candeo program if anyone feels like joining it. Im not sure ill pay for them again as I know what to do I just need to do it.

boredom isnt really the killer so much as it is the wave of thoughts. your brain tends to not forget images and videos of hot girls. it gets permanently stored for the most part and can easily be recalled. its basically rewiring those thought patterns.

the problem that i think killed me and turned me into an AFC was i rewired my thought patterns enough to kill the porn but in the process i killed my sex drive completely and turned into an AFC. I really was scared to be caught looking at girls despite i talked to them more than i ever had in ages.

so its a double edged sword you dont want to fap but you dont want to kill your sex drive either. i do testify that it can be done.

also what hurt me is noticed i started wet dreaming. I'd get blue balls that wouldnt go away till I'd wet dream like 6 times every 2 weeks. I also noticed my dreams would get extremely sexual and intense. so while I could tame my conscious thinking my unconscious dreaming was beyond control and the body does need to ejaculate.
 

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This is my second attempt (the first lasted 2 1/2 days)

2nd day completed.


For me, it's more important that I put a stop to my internet porn usage. Which I have. I found this site, http://yourbrainonporn.com/ and it's some pretty scary stuff. I know I am a better man without it. No porn, no fap!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheMusic

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Fourth no fap attempt (started on january 1st).

Attempt 1: 23 days
Attempt 2: 100 days
Attempt 3: 150 days
Attempt 4: 4 days and still counting
 

Eternal_water

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I havent masturbated yet this year, thats only 4 days though. I'm working later and my boss is really hot.
 

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Eternal_water said:
I havent masturbated yet this year, thats only 4 days though.
I got bored on New Years day, so...., you know, lol, DUH!

3 days in and going strong :)
 

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Hows it going guys, I came close to breaking whilst watching Victoria Azarenka playing tennis, held strong though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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