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Mr.SomeoneElse

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After watching this
(From 11 min point for those of you in a rush)
One guy reports all of this after 43 days of not fapping
  • ~I have a lot more courage

    ~I speak with a lot more clarity and control

    ~People and their issues don't bother me as much. I just allow them to be who they are

    ~I can hold eye contact with women

    ~Men respect me more. This has been really noticeable

    ~I feel like a man. Just this inner confidence...I feel like a rock

    ~I am not as groggy when I wake up

    ~I find myself meditating without even trying. I just go within and feel super great

    ~I hardly get nervous about anything. Just relaxed confidence

    ~My circle of friends and associates have been looking at me differently. Its like they can sense something different but they can't put their finger on it

    ~My face looks brighter and I don't look as tired as I used to. I feel and look a lot more alert

    ~Life feels more...real. There is a certain quality of it....

Keen to hear if any of you have any experience from this so far
I know this was posted in the 'anything' section but since this part of the site is more frequented I thought we should share it here.

Apparently it takes 4-5 months for us younger guys to re-program our brains
where as it takes only 1 - 2 months for older guys

Interested to see how it affects me, i'm going to document it here.

Still 1 day in for me :rockon:

If any of you want to join it that haven't already started feel free!
 

Young Juan

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Achieving difficult goals does that
 

BigSmooth

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Sure why not. I'm already on day 3 of this.
 

Packers2010

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i've tried this like 3 times now... i lasted a week. is the longest with no fapping,

though i do really need to kick it. so lets do it!
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Eternal_water said:
I failed......
hahaha, damn man. Try again lol
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Ive been reading up on this even more.
The results people are claiming are insane
It makes sense if you think about it..

We're engineered to have sex with woman, constantly
whenever we get these strong urges we just open up a new tab on the internet
Our brains are wired to exert these urges infront of our computer
Which in the long run decreases our need to have good social skills, confidence, alpha mentality, eye contact etc..
By stopping fapping and watching porn
We start to learn that the only way to fullfill these urges are in real life situations, we 'reboot' our brains (takes 90 days apparently) and gain those social skills, idgaf attitude that most men should have.

The withdrawls are supposed to be insane.
I never thought I fapped a lot, I only did it maybe 3-4x a week,
If I cant get to bed on time i fap
with the odd day or week of doing it everyday or multiple times in a day
Not sure if this is average but I thought it was pretty regular

Looking back on it I can't remember a time that i've gone longer than two weeks without fapping, which is kind of ****ed to think about and still say I'm not addicted. This is definitely going to be interesting,
Woke up with strongwood this morning, saluting the world, sad I couldn't do anything about it

..Day 2
 

Eternal_water

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I went on a school trip once for 3 weeks (quite a long school trip). I was constantly in contact with all my friends and having a brilliant time.

I didn't masterbate once in those entire 3 weeks.

Its the most social I've ever been. Its easy If you're busy all day. Its when you've got nothing to do.
 

Mike32ct

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I ready to start this.

My only question is....Does any female start to look good after an extended period of no porn and no whacking off?

I'd hate to start eyeing fatties lol.

Or is it just a temporary side effect that goes away in say a month?
 

AAAgent

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Mike32ct said:
I ready to start this.

My only question is....Does any female start to look good after an extended period of no porn and no whacking off?

I'd hate to start eyeing fatties lol.
Yes they do.

If you're not sure just give yourself some time to cool off. After the gym and my urges are down my eyesight goes back to normal.
 

Fly By Night

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i tried this **** last semester and i went in a month strong, then after an intimate priming, i had to get one off :l

its been on and off since then. Can you still edge?
 

Desire

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From forum.bodybuilding.com:

"Serious thread. This seems like bullshiit but I'm not lying.

Was beta, depressed, had anxiety before.

Almost three weeks in, no fap no porn. So much change that I can not adjust.

I don' know if my body smells like straight testosterone, but something is going on. My mind is blown at the increased attention I am getting from women. Girls that I have known, and complete strangers. I understand girls that I know showing more interest, considering that I am much more social and flirtatious, but complete strangers are hitting on me hard as fuk.

Girls literally fighting over me. Not combat, but "drama" type.
Get way too much attention at bars and clubs. I feel overwhelmed but it does not show, they just keep coming.
Girls keep giving me their numbers and actually asking me to fuk them, I don;t even know what to do.
Get eye fuked all day.
I have so many options that it's overwhelming.

I have almost no anxiety so I flirt with every girl no matter what.
It takes a lot more alcohol to have any effect on me.
Had to but new polo's because of the gains. (Strength, and size increase from my new appetite)"




http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=144281411&page=1
 

marmel75

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Testosterone suppression at its finest...
 

BigSmooth

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Our brains were not engineered for porn. This is a good thread not for just quitting yanking the wood, but also abolishing porn from y'alls lives.


Day 4 and going strong.
 

Mark1234

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I've been doing a 90 day challenge off and on for a few months now. Only made it 10 days so far :(

Felt amazing (great energy, witty as all get out, funny, confident, ect) but succumbed to boredom.

I'm in it 100 percent now though and on day 2 thus far.

If you guys are familiar with TED talks, you should watch the one on internet porn, very eye opening.
 
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