I'm going no contact with this chick but she still has something of mine. It's not a great loss if i never see this item again. Should i ask for this item back or continue on the path of strickly no contact? My gut just says to let her keep it since maybe it will remind her of me and fvck with her head. This chick has disrespected me and taken me for granted.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wonderbread
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Bump for the answer to this question, I'm also in the same situation. Ex has 2 of my sweatshirts. >:[
jnice48146
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I'm in the 1st week of NC and this b*tch has my slippers. I said F it and bought a new pair. She has texted me twice asking if I want to come get them, or her drop them off. Her dog was fond of sleeping with them. He would drag one into her bed with him. Can you say "mindfvck"?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wonderbread
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Yeah I would but the drive to her house is like half an hour and I don't feel like driving up there for 2 sweatshirts to have that awkward moment with her, even though they are nice. I'd rather have her get all sad and sh*t when she sees them. (its already worked she texted me and said something like she saw my sweatshirts and thought about me) but I didn't reply to that message.FreD_BeaR said:im also in the same situation. But id want those sweatshirts back thats for sure haha.
Wasabi_Master
Don Juan
my ex has about $600 worth of my stuff, i said fvck it , let her keep this sh!t.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.