I'm going no contact with this chick but she still has something of mine. It's not a great loss if i never see this item again. Should i ask for this item back or continue on the path of strickly no contact? My gut just says to let her keep it since maybe it will remind her of me and fvck with her head. This chick has disrespected me and taken me for granted.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
wonderbread
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Bump for the answer to this question, I'm also in the same situation. Ex has 2 of my sweatshirts. >:[
jnice48146
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I'm in the 1st week of NC and this b*tch has my slippers. I said F it and bought a new pair. She has texted me twice asking if I want to come get them, or her drop them off. Her dog was fond of sleeping with them. He would drag one into her bed with him. Can you say "mindfvck"?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
wonderbread
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Yeah I would but the drive to her house is like half an hour and I don't feel like driving up there for 2 sweatshirts to have that awkward moment with her, even though they are nice. I'd rather have her get all sad and sh*t when she sees them. (its already worked she texted me and said something like she saw my sweatshirts and thought about me) but I didn't reply to that message.FreD_BeaR said:im also in the same situation. But id want those sweatshirts back thats for sure haha.
Wasabi_Master
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my ex has about $600 worth of my stuff, i said fvck it , let her keep this sh!t.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.