"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NO contact... Month Later she tags me

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The first girl , went on a date, she wanted to bring her friend... and I was kinda third wheel on their date and the day was a big waste of time... almost like her way of breaking up with me (even tho we're not exactly dating). She messages me back 1 month later, but I'm out of the country by then.

Girl number 2, third date, no kissing, she ends the date abruptly before dinner, some excuse.
Asked her if she wanted to go for a hike, she said busy. No contact.

1 Month later she "tags" me on FB. Some article guy learning Dutch. She's dutch.

I would reconnect with her if there's sex possibility. But seems low chance of that.
At least the other girl messaged me. This one it's just a tag.

I'm a little tempted to reconnect cause she has some good contacts in Holland and I'm a software developer/distributor.
But these confounding goals confuse me haha.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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