"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"No Contact" is so simple! And what it should be!

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All rise! Court is now in session. The honorable Judge nismo-4 presiding. You may be seated.

I see this thing of No contact (going ghost) all over the place. But it's getting used mostly for the wrong reasons. It's to be used by the man to move the hell on, not to punish a girl. When I'm finished with a girl, I'm finished. Done. Not looking back. Why go back to an uninterested woman who will only reject me or just want something from me, just not my dik? Uninterested women won't bang you. Quit wasting your time on them! See buzzin' frog's thread.

I hereby declare "No contact" to be redefined as:

Erase and replace.


Stop trying to get the b**ch back. She ain't interested. She moved on already. Stop lingering hoping for another chance, it is over dammit! Erase her and replace her! Women are replaceable. Hey, she replaced your ass days ago. Do the same thing. Delete her contact info from every platform (Twitter, facebook, OKC, POF, Skype, etc.) No more attention of yours is to go to a b**ch who rejected you or is showing low-no interest. She may not care, but you are going after better options. At least I hope you are for your own f**kin' sake. I put up with very little to no female bullsh*t, and my dating life has gotten so much better when I began dropping low interest women with no letup. They may come back to you.

AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Court is adjourned.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It doesn't ultimately matter WHY you're going No Contact. The results are the same. No Contact is No Contact.
 

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AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Dude. You should have a record deal, or some sh!t =)
 

beatjunkie

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can't find buzzin' frog's thread
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Redwood

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DonGorgon said:
i have gotten them back a few times but its never the same and it never lasts... and if you take her back she will seek to F you over worse than she did the first time
Exactly. But the thing here to remember is that her initial attraction for you will never be the same as it was in the beginning.
 
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