"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"No Contact" is so simple! And what it should be!

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All rise! Court is now in session. The honorable Judge nismo-4 presiding. You may be seated.

I see this thing of No contact (going ghost) all over the place. But it's getting used mostly for the wrong reasons. It's to be used by the man to move the hell on, not to punish a girl. When I'm finished with a girl, I'm finished. Done. Not looking back. Why go back to an uninterested woman who will only reject me or just want something from me, just not my dik? Uninterested women won't bang you. Quit wasting your time on them! See buzzin' frog's thread.

I hereby declare "No contact" to be redefined as:

Erase and replace.


Stop trying to get the b**ch back. She ain't interested. She moved on already. Stop lingering hoping for another chance, it is over dammit! Erase her and replace her! Women are replaceable. Hey, she replaced your ass days ago. Do the same thing. Delete her contact info from every platform (Twitter, facebook, OKC, POF, Skype, etc.) No more attention of yours is to go to a b**ch who rejected you or is showing low-no interest. She may not care, but you are going after better options. At least I hope you are for your own f**kin' sake. I put up with very little to no female bullsh*t, and my dating life has gotten so much better when I began dropping low interest women with no letup. They may come back to you.

AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Court is adjourned.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It doesn't ultimately matter WHY you're going No Contact. The results are the same. No Contact is No Contact.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Dude. You should have a record deal, or some sh!t =)
 

beatjunkie

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can't find buzzin' frog's thread
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Redwood

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DonGorgon said:
i have gotten them back a few times but its never the same and it never lasts... and if you take her back she will seek to F you over worse than she did the first time
Exactly. But the thing here to remember is that her initial attraction for you will never be the same as it was in the beginning.
 
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