"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"No Contact" is so simple! And what it should be!

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All rise! Court is now in session. The honorable Judge nismo-4 presiding. You may be seated.

I see this thing of No contact (going ghost) all over the place. But it's getting used mostly for the wrong reasons. It's to be used by the man to move the hell on, not to punish a girl. When I'm finished with a girl, I'm finished. Done. Not looking back. Why go back to an uninterested woman who will only reject me or just want something from me, just not my dik? Uninterested women won't bang you. Quit wasting your time on them! See buzzin' frog's thread.

I hereby declare "No contact" to be redefined as:

Erase and replace.


Stop trying to get the b**ch back. She ain't interested. She moved on already. Stop lingering hoping for another chance, it is over dammit! Erase her and replace her! Women are replaceable. Hey, she replaced your ass days ago. Do the same thing. Delete her contact info from every platform (Twitter, facebook, OKC, POF, Skype, etc.) No more attention of yours is to go to a b**ch who rejected you or is showing low-no interest. She may not care, but you are going after better options. At least I hope you are for your own f**kin' sake. I put up with very little to no female bullsh*t, and my dating life has gotten so much better when I began dropping low interest women with no letup. They may come back to you.

AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Court is adjourned.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It doesn't ultimately matter WHY you're going No Contact. The results are the same. No Contact is No Contact.
 

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AFC's chase the lace with a creepy face. If she wants space, I erase and replace.

Dude. You should have a record deal, or some sh!t =)
 

beatjunkie

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can't find buzzin' frog's thread
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon said:
i have gotten them back a few times but its never the same and it never lasts... and if you take her back she will seek to F you over worse than she did the first time
Exactly. But the thing here to remember is that her initial attraction for you will never be the same as it was in the beginning.
 
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