"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No car, no bedroom..where can you do "stuff"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You can do everything almost anywhere.
Late late at night, you can get away with almost anything.
And there is always a hotel.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol :crackup:Mavrick said:
everywomanshero
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Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Having no car really limits your options. Are there any secluded parts of your school that few people go to?
Another idea is to look into hot tubs, spa's or saunas. Google your city and hot tubs. You can do what ever you want in your private room and most charge by the hour.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Picnic style. Where are your animalistic reflexes? Find a nice secluded tree on a hill, spread a blanket, and let the stars be your ceiling.
Goodness the lack of... er.... romance...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
That got me out of all kinds of jams. Plus, if your freind doesn't like the idea, just spend a little bit of green and he will get out of your way.
As to the idea that if you want to and are discreet enough, you can do it almost anywhere. Whenever my ex-girlfriends parents went to bed, we would always use the living room and her room.
comic_relief
iqqi
Master Don Juan
wolf116 said:
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