"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No car, no bedroom..where can you do "stuff"
- Thread starter spax
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You can do everything almost anywhere.
Late late at night, you can get away with almost anything.
And there is always a hotel.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol :crackup:Mavrick said:
everywomanshero
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Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Having no car really limits your options. Are there any secluded parts of your school that few people go to?
Another idea is to look into hot tubs, spa's or saunas. Google your city and hot tubs. You can do what ever you want in your private room and most charge by the hour.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Picnic style. Where are your animalistic reflexes? Find a nice secluded tree on a hill, spread a blanket, and let the stars be your ceiling.
Goodness the lack of... er.... romance...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
That got me out of all kinds of jams. Plus, if your freind doesn't like the idea, just spend a little bit of green and he will get out of your way.
As to the idea that if you want to and are discreet enough, you can do it almost anywhere. Whenever my ex-girlfriends parents went to bed, we would always use the living room and her room.
comic_relief
iqqi
Master Don Juan
wolf116 said:
Heyyyy.