"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i should be calling this girl to ask her to come to the park with me (only date idea i can think of) and i just havent got the balls to call her ;z its pretty much our third meeting and we were pretty close second date (had her in my arms all night and constant grinding/hugging) but i pussied out of a kiss close and she even asked me about it later... now its thursday and i alreayd mentioned something about going out on saturday and that id fill her in on the details but i havent got round to doing it... now im *****ing out again and i dunno why :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so instead you whine about your problems here and expect what?
 
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skel tbh i dont know if i did i would of stated what i expected
 
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come on guys - admittedly we do get a lot of AFC rubbish but why should we not help rather than criticise?

We can make a difference to these poor guys. (wish this didnt sound so cheesy though)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol doesnt matter i called and it rang for less then half a second before it went to voicemail lol oh well :p
 
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Dude, you already know this girl, she's not a complete stranger.

Just pretend she is one of your guy friends. ACT as if she is one of your guy friends, because the truth is she is no better than them and this will help you nail her.
 
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look at the post above urs T i called and got shunted lol
 
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remember - persistance
 
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but not stalking. oh no, thats the path to trouble.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes - there is a line but im certain this has been covered in past posts *hint*
 
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im thinking just forget her, she obviously doesnt want to talk and if she does she knows my number
 
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Dunno what to tell you, except MAN UP. In some parts of the world, guys your age are out there, at this very moment, with rifles, killing left and right, covered in blood, facing death at any moment, all day, every day. They have little food, little clothing, no money and no home go to go at night. They sleep on straw, with a gun in hand and a knife under their head. They know that in all likelyhood, they're not gonna make it alive through the next couple of years. And then there's you... scared of talking a girl to a quiet park in the peaceful America. MAN UP!
 
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i love how people post without even reading through the fecking thread

and im not in america
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she called back and flaked on saturday... didnt even listen to her reason :p just went its alrite dont worry bout it i gotta go now, then shes like dont u have freetime to talk... i was like nah busy sorry bye.

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