"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i should be calling this girl to ask her to come to the park with me (only date idea i can think of) and i just havent got the balls to call her ;z its pretty much our third meeting and we were pretty close second date (had her in my arms all night and constant grinding/hugging) but i pussied out of a kiss close and she even asked me about it later... now its thursday and i alreayd mentioned something about going out on saturday and that id fill her in on the details but i havent got round to doing it... now im *****ing out again and i dunno why :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so instead you whine about your problems here and expect what?
 
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skel tbh i dont know if i did i would of stated what i expected
 
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come on guys - admittedly we do get a lot of AFC rubbish but why should we not help rather than criticise?

We can make a difference to these poor guys. (wish this didnt sound so cheesy though)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol doesnt matter i called and it rang for less then half a second before it went to voicemail lol oh well :p
 
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Dude, you already know this girl, she's not a complete stranger.

Just pretend she is one of your guy friends. ACT as if she is one of your guy friends, because the truth is she is no better than them and this will help you nail her.
 
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look at the post above urs T i called and got shunted lol
 
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remember - persistance
 
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but not stalking. oh no, thats the path to trouble.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yes - there is a line but im certain this has been covered in past posts *hint*
 
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im thinking just forget her, she obviously doesnt want to talk and if she does she knows my number
 
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Dunno what to tell you, except MAN UP. In some parts of the world, guys your age are out there, at this very moment, with rifles, killing left and right, covered in blood, facing death at any moment, all day, every day. They have little food, little clothing, no money and no home go to go at night. They sleep on straw, with a gun in hand and a knife under their head. They know that in all likelyhood, they're not gonna make it alive through the next couple of years. And then there's you... scared of talking a girl to a quiet park in the peaceful America. MAN UP!
 
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i love how people post without even reading through the fecking thread

and im not in america
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she called back and flaked on saturday... didnt even listen to her reason :p just went its alrite dont worry bout it i gotta go now, then shes like dont u have freetime to talk... i was like nah busy sorry bye.

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