"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

no balls

S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
i should be calling this girl to ask her to come to the park with me (only date idea i can think of) and i just havent got the balls to call her ;z its pretty much our third meeting and we were pretty close second date (had her in my arms all night and constant grinding/hugging) but i pussied out of a kiss close and she even asked me about it later... now its thursday and i alreayd mentioned something about going out on saturday and that id fill her in on the details but i havent got round to doing it... now im *****ing out again and i dunno why :(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

S

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
so instead you whine about your problems here and expect what?
 
S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
skel tbh i dont know if i did i would of stated what i expected
 
J

Jezz

Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Location
Manchester
come on guys - admittedly we do get a lot of AFC rubbish but why should we not help rather than criticise?

We can make a difference to these poor guys. (wish this didnt sound so cheesy though)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
lol doesnt matter i called and it rang for less then half a second before it went to voicemail lol oh well :p
 
I

-=Ice-T=-

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2005
Messages
56
Reaction score
0
Dude, you already know this girl, she's not a complete stranger.

Just pretend she is one of your guy friends. ACT as if she is one of your guy friends, because the truth is she is no better than them and this will help you nail her.
 
S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
look at the post above urs T i called and got shunted lol
 
J

Jezz

Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Location
Manchester
remember - persistance
 
J

Jezz

Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Location
Manchester
but not stalking. oh no, thats the path to trouble.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

J

Jezz

Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Location
Manchester
yes - there is a line but im certain this has been covered in past posts *hint*
 
S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
im thinking just forget her, she obviously doesnt want to talk and if she does she knows my number
 
K

Krassus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2003
Messages
1,386
Reaction score
17
Location
Here
Dunno what to tell you, except MAN UP. In some parts of the world, guys your age are out there, at this very moment, with rifles, killing left and right, covered in blood, facing death at any moment, all day, every day. They have little food, little clothing, no money and no home go to go at night. They sleep on straw, with a gun in hand and a knife under their head. They know that in all likelyhood, they're not gonna make it alive through the next couple of years. And then there's you... scared of talking a girl to a quiet park in the peaceful America. MAN UP!
 
S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
i love how people post without even reading through the fecking thread

and im not in america
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

S

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
she called back and flaked on saturday... didnt even listen to her reason :p just went its alrite dont worry bout it i gotta go now, then shes like dont u have freetime to talk... i was like nah busy sorry bye.

;\
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top