"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NLP in website design?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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taiyuu_otoko

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I don't know about color theory, but NLP can be used effectively in text.

But it's much more effective in a video. Either some guy talking to the camera or an animation with a voiceover. Gotta know what you're doing, though.
 

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My one man company offers website design and SEO services, and on the market in my area I'm not the first. In order to get ahead I want to offer NLP and color theory in website design. While competition focuses on CMS namely Drupal, and tells people how cool it is, my motto is that technology on which your site is designed has no weight to end user and the only thing that matter is what emotions are communicated to the end user - making the end user want to call you is the only thing that matters!

What you think? Good idea?
 

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Whatever you're doing, so long as you provide more conversions than the customer. It won't matter what you're putting on there if it doesn't work.

But using NLP effectively is one way to do that. I don't know how effective NLP would be as a marketing point though. Meaning if you say "our services come with NLP!" it might not work for so many people.

But if you could say, "our clients get x times more conversions because we use NLP," then you got something.

Bottom line, like you said, customers don't care if you're using NLP, Drupal, or black magic. So long as they convert.
 
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