"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NLP in website design?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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taiyuu_otoko

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I don't know about color theory, but NLP can be used effectively in text.

But it's much more effective in a video. Either some guy talking to the camera or an animation with a voiceover. Gotta know what you're doing, though.
 

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My one man company offers website design and SEO services, and on the market in my area I'm not the first. In order to get ahead I want to offer NLP and color theory in website design. While competition focuses on CMS namely Drupal, and tells people how cool it is, my motto is that technology on which your site is designed has no weight to end user and the only thing that matter is what emotions are communicated to the end user - making the end user want to call you is the only thing that matters!

What you think? Good idea?
 

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Whatever you're doing, so long as you provide more conversions than the customer. It won't matter what you're putting on there if it doesn't work.

But using NLP effectively is one way to do that. I don't know how effective NLP would be as a marketing point though. Meaning if you say "our services come with NLP!" it might not work for so many people.

But if you could say, "our clients get x times more conversions because we use NLP," then you got something.

Bottom line, like you said, customers don't care if you're using NLP, Drupal, or black magic. So long as they convert.
 
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