"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rainman4707

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At one point in the film he (Rourke) tells Basinger that he's going to spank her, she attacks him & starts trying to hit him. He pins her down & ****s her. She struggles at first, but then seems to allow it.
What I found interesting about that scene is it has a very large risk for the male because the woman could claim rape!
David Shade highly recommends this type of behaviour towards women. Fifty shades type behaviour.

Be like the main actor in this film & you'll bed lots of girls. They may not see you as LTR relationship material, but no man will ever make women FEEL more alive than you in their entire life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yea theres a very fine line there, that's more my style too, I'm very aggressive with women, from the approach to the bedroom and I have a lot of success, but a lot also walk away from me/think I'm just a player/autoreject me. But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it. sometimes after being ultra aggressive ill just back off for a few seconds and stare in to her eyes, you can easily gage her reaction that way, shes either going to roll out or pull you back in, that way its on her.
 

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But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it..
Yep, there's a fine line, you have to go with your gut instinct. This is why it's so much more important for men than women to have experience in the bedroom.
 

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Women like to be dominated not degraded.... That's the fine line....

Take control..... call the shots... exude confidence... and **** her good.
 

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Since being divorced, I have not banged a woman who did not like being dominated in bed.

Spanking, hairpulling, holding them by the back of the neck, holding them down, restraining them, suddenly pressing them up against a wall in a semi public place like youre going to take her right there, dragging them around the bed into different positions... When minor variations, every one of them got off on it.

Just make sure you keep asking if she's ok/good with it along the way. A certain level of trust needs to be established to escalate that type of activity. And most of them cannot get enough of it.

-Augustus-
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rainman4707

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I understand the fine line, but Rourke goes way past that fineline & woman seem to LOVE it!!
Like I say though...massive risk for the man.


Scene i'm talking about starts from 38 mins in.
 
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