"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rainman4707

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At one point in the film he (Rourke) tells Basinger that he's going to spank her, she attacks him & starts trying to hit him. He pins her down & ****s her. She struggles at first, but then seems to allow it.
What I found interesting about that scene is it has a very large risk for the male because the woman could claim rape!
David Shade highly recommends this type of behaviour towards women. Fifty shades type behaviour.

Be like the main actor in this film & you'll bed lots of girls. They may not see you as LTR relationship material, but no man will ever make women FEEL more alive than you in their entire life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yea theres a very fine line there, that's more my style too, I'm very aggressive with women, from the approach to the bedroom and I have a lot of success, but a lot also walk away from me/think I'm just a player/autoreject me. But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it. sometimes after being ultra aggressive ill just back off for a few seconds and stare in to her eyes, you can easily gage her reaction that way, shes either going to roll out or pull you back in, that way its on her.
 

zekko

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But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it..
Yep, there's a fine line, you have to go with your gut instinct. This is why it's so much more important for men than women to have experience in the bedroom.
 

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Women like to be dominated not degraded.... That's the fine line....

Take control..... call the shots... exude confidence... and **** her good.
 

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Since being divorced, I have not banged a woman who did not like being dominated in bed.

Spanking, hairpulling, holding them by the back of the neck, holding them down, restraining them, suddenly pressing them up against a wall in a semi public place like youre going to take her right there, dragging them around the bed into different positions... When minor variations, every one of them got off on it.

Just make sure you keep asking if she's ok/good with it along the way. A certain level of trust needs to be established to escalate that type of activity. And most of them cannot get enough of it.

-Augustus-
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rainman4707

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I understand the fine line, but Rourke goes way past that fineline & woman seem to LOVE it!!
Like I say though...massive risk for the man.


Scene i'm talking about starts from 38 mins in.
 
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