"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rainman4707

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At one point in the film he (Rourke) tells Basinger that he's going to spank her, she attacks him & starts trying to hit him. He pins her down & ****s her. She struggles at first, but then seems to allow it.
What I found interesting about that scene is it has a very large risk for the male because the woman could claim rape!
David Shade highly recommends this type of behaviour towards women. Fifty shades type behaviour.

Be like the main actor in this film & you'll bed lots of girls. They may not see you as LTR relationship material, but no man will ever make women FEEL more alive than you in their entire life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea theres a very fine line there, that's more my style too, I'm very aggressive with women, from the approach to the bedroom and I have a lot of success, but a lot also walk away from me/think I'm just a player/autoreject me. But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it. sometimes after being ultra aggressive ill just back off for a few seconds and stare in to her eyes, you can easily gage her reaction that way, shes either going to roll out or pull you back in, that way its on her.
 

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But theres a fine line that you have to be able to read between, a teasing "I hate you so much for making me so attracted to you" and an actual, get the **** off of me. You just have to be able to sense it..
Yep, there's a fine line, you have to go with your gut instinct. This is why it's so much more important for men than women to have experience in the bedroom.
 

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Women like to be dominated not degraded.... That's the fine line....

Take control..... call the shots... exude confidence... and **** her good.
 

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Since being divorced, I have not banged a woman who did not like being dominated in bed.

Spanking, hairpulling, holding them by the back of the neck, holding them down, restraining them, suddenly pressing them up against a wall in a semi public place like youre going to take her right there, dragging them around the bed into different positions... When minor variations, every one of them got off on it.

Just make sure you keep asking if she's ok/good with it along the way. A certain level of trust needs to be established to escalate that type of activity. And most of them cannot get enough of it.

-Augustus-
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rainman4707

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I understand the fine line, but Rourke goes way past that fineline & woman seem to LOVE it!!
Like I say though...massive risk for the man.


Scene i'm talking about starts from 38 mins in.
 
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