Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Nihilism

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What is your opinion on this philosophy? It seems like a dangerous philosophy to have but I find myself agreeing with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"I mean, say what you like about the tenets of National Socialism, Dude, at least it's an ethos..."
 

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Can be jolly good fun if not taken seriously.
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
Exactly, that's why nihilist are usually angst-ridden people with too much time on their hands.
 

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There's no problem with recognizing the existence of morality. Even a child can do it. The only important thing to remember is that no religion or God has the market cornered on morality, despite what they will tell you. A Christian will use his God (and Bible) as the benchmark for morality. A Muslim will claim Allah is the benchmark. And so on, and so forth. Different societies around the world also have their various ideas.

It really comes down to actions that cause harm to living things. If an action is harmful to life or something living, then that action is potentially amoral. Then it can get complicated when one action can have both harmful and beneficial consequences (such as war).
 

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I don't know about nihilism on a social scale, but as a personal scale I like it. Destruction of the former self to create something better. Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes.

If you're into big reads try Nietzsche's Thus Spoke Zarathustra.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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