"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nihilism

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What is your opinion on this philosophy? It seems like a dangerous philosophy to have but I find myself agreeing with it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I mean, say what you like about the tenets of National Socialism, Dude, at least it's an ethos..."
 

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Can be jolly good fun if not taken seriously.
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speakeasy

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Bible_Belt said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
Exactly, that's why nihilist are usually angst-ridden people with too much time on their hands.
 

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There's no problem with recognizing the existence of morality. Even a child can do it. The only important thing to remember is that no religion or God has the market cornered on morality, despite what they will tell you. A Christian will use his God (and Bible) as the benchmark for morality. A Muslim will claim Allah is the benchmark. And so on, and so forth. Different societies around the world also have their various ideas.

It really comes down to actions that cause harm to living things. If an action is harmful to life or something living, then that action is potentially amoral. Then it can get complicated when one action can have both harmful and beneficial consequences (such as war).
 

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I don't know about nihilism on a social scale, but as a personal scale I like it. Destruction of the former self to create something better. Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes.

If you're into big reads try Nietzsche's Thus Spoke Zarathustra.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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