"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nihilism

SamMalone

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What is your opinion on this philosophy? It seems like a dangerous philosophy to have but I find myself agreeing with it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"I mean, say what you like about the tenets of National Socialism, Dude, at least it's an ethos..."
 

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Can be jolly good fun if not taken seriously.
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihilism

Nihilism not only dismisses received moral values, but rejects 'morality' outright, viewing it as baseless.


I don't understand the complete rejection of morality. Surely, anyone can think of someone or something immoral: Hitler, Osama, etc.

If you were the victim of a crime, you would feel wronged, but nihilism says that there is no right or wrong, so a nihilist can't ever complain about how other people treat him?
Exactly, that's why nihilist are usually angst-ridden people with too much time on their hands.
 

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There's no problem with recognizing the existence of morality. Even a child can do it. The only important thing to remember is that no religion or God has the market cornered on morality, despite what they will tell you. A Christian will use his God (and Bible) as the benchmark for morality. A Muslim will claim Allah is the benchmark. And so on, and so forth. Different societies around the world also have their various ideas.

It really comes down to actions that cause harm to living things. If an action is harmful to life or something living, then that action is potentially amoral. Then it can get complicated when one action can have both harmful and beneficial consequences (such as war).
 

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I don't know about nihilism on a social scale, but as a personal scale I like it. Destruction of the former self to create something better. Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes.

If you're into big reads try Nietzsche's Thus Spoke Zarathustra.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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