NightClub help

[SealTeamSix]

Hey fellas ..

Suppose you made approach at a club .. u talk to girls .. then you split without closing. Let say for while you went away from her .. But you now want to get back to her .. what would be most appropriate approach?


Any comment, suggestion welcomed!

 

[squirrels]

Why would you "re-approach", meaning why are you approaching this situation as if it was a completely new pick-up? If you've generated ANY rapport in your time with the girl (and it's not hard in the club, sometimes just exchanging glances is enough rapport in the club ), then you shouldn't have a problem approaching her later on in the night.

 

[Don_Marko]

Yeah this hsouldn't be too difficult... just pick up on an old thread or be like... gave away any numbers yet?

 

[GaryNas]

squirrels is right, you shouldn't have any problem talking to the same girl again, unless she gave you the cold shoulder the first time. One thing I like to do is comment on how other guys look. So I'll go up to a lady I was talking with earlier and immediately jokingly say:

"Hey, that guy over there is hot, go hit on him."

That gets a laugh out of her and conversation flows from that. Obviously this isn't for everyone, but it works great for me.

 

[comote]

Originally posted by GaryNas
squirrels is right, you shouldn't have any problem talking to the same girl again, unless she gave you the cold shoulder the first time. One thing I like to do is comment on how other guys look. So I'll go up to a lady I was talking with earlier and immediately jokingly say:

"Hey, that guy over there is hot, go hit on him."

That gets a laugh out of her and conversation flows from that. Obviously this isn't for everyone, but it works great for me.

You know I used to do that sort of thing to. I stay away from it now though. I am actually sick of conventional clubs, I will go if I am going with a group of girls I already know but If I am going solo or with a wingman I hit up the latin clubs. A much better time if you ask me.