You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't see how that advances you in her eyes.Originally posted by NYC Dude
Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke.
She wants you to call her a nick name so you go on an internet board in search of one?Originally posted by tpntch
my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?
Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it.
ewwwwwOriginally posted by Jerky Boi
I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay.Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name
example
erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton
etc,etc,etc
hahaha ya, i guess it does sound badOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay.Absolutely horrid.
Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.