"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tpntch

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my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?


Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NYC Dude

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Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke. Probably will stop soon though, because once it gets old it's just degrading.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke.
I don't see how that advances you in her eyes.
 

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Originally posted by tpntch
my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?


Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
She wants you to call her a nick name so you go on an internet board in search of one?

Don't call her one just because she wants you to.
 

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Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it. You kinda just have to come up with it with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've always called my girlfriends by their names, but that's my preferance as nicknames give me the sh*ts

Just say to her if you keep calling me that name I'll call you {INSERT NAME SHE HATES}
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it.
:crackup: :crackup:

Heh. Is she slipping you something funky.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny.
ewwwww

lol

and to the poster, nicknames you get for a reason. find a reason to call her something, then call her that
 

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ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name

example

erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton

etc,etc,etc
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name

example

erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton

etc,etc,etc
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay. :down: Absolutely horrid.

Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay. :down: Absolutely horrid.

Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.
hahaha ya, i guess it does sound bad

i only call them that when its just the two of us tho, and i don't say it all the time. just occasionally to tease them, and always delivered with smile. every time i've done this the girl has liked it, and it always reminds them of me when they hear it.

also, this is only a basic example. i try to use nicknames based on inside jokes whenever possible. i use the reverse gender thing if i have nothing else. i call almost every girl i know by a nickname, cause its good for building rapport
 

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Calling them by their email thingie is just as good as any, but use it sparingly.
 
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