You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't see how that advances you in her eyes.Originally posted by NYC Dude
Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke.
She wants you to call her a nick name so you go on an internet board in search of one?Originally posted by tpntch
my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?
Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it.
ewwwwwOriginally posted by Jerky Boi
I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay.Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name
example
erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton
etc,etc,etc
hahaha ya, i guess it does sound badOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay.Absolutely horrid.
Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.