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my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?


Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
 

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Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke. Probably will stop soon though, because once it gets old it's just degrading.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Find something about her that you joked to her about (like an inside joke or something). I, for instance, call my GF a "Fat old hag." No joke.
I don't see how that advances you in her eyes.
 

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Originally posted by tpntch
my girl is really buggin me about calling her one of those corny nicknames... Can someone help me out?


Anything besides baby or honey is fine with me
She wants you to call her a nick name so you go on an internet board in search of one?

Don't call her one just because she wants you to.
 

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Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it. You kinda just have to come up with it with her.
 

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I've always called my girlfriends by their names, but that's my preferance as nicknames give me the sh*ts

Just say to her if you keep calling me that name I'll call you {INSERT NAME SHE HATES}
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Me and my old girlfriend just kinda came up with ours together. I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny. Kinda nice haha, I liked it.
:crackup: :crackup:

Heh. Is she slipping you something funky.
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I called her buttercup and she called me her Honey Bunny.
ewwwww

lol

and to the poster, nicknames you get for a reason. find a reason to call her something, then call her that
 

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ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name

example

erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton

etc,etc,etc
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
ps one that i like to do is use the male version of their name

example

erin -> ernie
jenny -> johnny
ashley -> ashton

etc,etc,etc
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay. :down: Absolutely horrid.

Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, that's good to do if you want to come off as being gay. :down: Absolutely horrid.

Nicknames based off of inside jokes or conversations are best.
hahaha ya, i guess it does sound bad

i only call them that when its just the two of us tho, and i don't say it all the time. just occasionally to tease them, and always delivered with smile. every time i've done this the girl has liked it, and it always reminds them of me when they hear it.

also, this is only a basic example. i try to use nicknames based on inside jokes whenever possible. i use the reverse gender thing if i have nothing else. i call almost every girl i know by a nickname, cause its good for building rapport
 

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Calling them by their email thingie is just as good as any, but use it sparingly.
 
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