"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nicknames

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bilboteabaggins

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dude this is so easy, just start busting them on something and one will develop, this one girl I was gaming loved to eat cookies all the time, but she wasn't that overweight or anything so I busted her on it and developed a good neg out of it that was just on the borderline of making her mad, I only refer to her as cookie monster now LOL
 

Htienvu

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I read on SS article somewhere that tell them you have a nickname for them, get them curious. Laugh when you tell her, she will want to know what it is but you NEVER tell her what it is. It's a good way to tease them, I tried it once, it works well.
 

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Stinky
Kid
Chipmunk (usually after teasing them about how they eat)
Shorty
Skinny
Tubby (Just kidding about that one)
Ditz or Ditzy
If you follow behind her in a store, tell her you can smell her. When she asks what she smells like, think of something crazy and then call her that. She will love it. It should be something outlandish like plastic, rubber tire, engine oil, etc. Shock value is important. She knows full well you are teasing but you are showing imagination (or a propensity to be like Atom Smasher). Either one is universally recognized as good form.
Baby Girl, Baby Cakes, etc. when you want to endear yourself to her
Spaz
Cranky
Spanky
Noodlehead
Snickerdoodle
Creepy

Just as bilbo says, you need to tease her about things and when she responds stongly by fake punching you and the like, use a nickname that fits the tease. Don't over-do it, though. It's just like ****y/Funny. It's a tool be used with discretion. But use it, all the same. It is effective for many uses.

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Htienvu said:
I read on SS article somewhere that tell them you have a nickname for them, get them curious. Laugh when you tell her, she will want to know what it is but you NEVER tell her what it is. It's a good way to tease them, I tried it once, it works well.
I use this too. It's a very good thing to get their curiosity up and keep it there.

Dang it, will someone please PM me about how to multiple quote? I think I'm using way too many steps to do it.
 
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