"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nicknames

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bilboteabaggins

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dude this is so easy, just start busting them on something and one will develop, this one girl I was gaming loved to eat cookies all the time, but she wasn't that overweight or anything so I busted her on it and developed a good neg out of it that was just on the borderline of making her mad, I only refer to her as cookie monster now LOL
 

Htienvu

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I read on SS article somewhere that tell them you have a nickname for them, get them curious. Laugh when you tell her, she will want to know what it is but you NEVER tell her what it is. It's a good way to tease them, I tried it once, it works well.
 

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Stinky
Kid
Chipmunk (usually after teasing them about how they eat)
Shorty
Skinny
Tubby (Just kidding about that one)
Ditz or Ditzy
If you follow behind her in a store, tell her you can smell her. When she asks what she smells like, think of something crazy and then call her that. She will love it. It should be something outlandish like plastic, rubber tire, engine oil, etc. Shock value is important. She knows full well you are teasing but you are showing imagination (or a propensity to be like Atom Smasher). Either one is universally recognized as good form.
Baby Girl, Baby Cakes, etc. when you want to endear yourself to her
Spaz
Cranky
Spanky
Noodlehead
Snickerdoodle
Creepy

Just as bilbo says, you need to tease her about things and when she responds stongly by fake punching you and the like, use a nickname that fits the tease. Don't over-do it, though. It's just like ****y/Funny. It's a tool be used with discretion. But use it, all the same. It is effective for many uses.

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Htienvu said:
I read on SS article somewhere that tell them you have a nickname for them, get them curious. Laugh when you tell her, she will want to know what it is but you NEVER tell her what it is. It's a good way to tease them, I tried it once, it works well.
I use this too. It's a very good thing to get their curiosity up and keep it there.

Dang it, will someone please PM me about how to multiple quote? I think I'm using way too many steps to do it.
 
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