"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nicknames for HB

Ricky

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I'm looking for some good new nicknames for HB's

Bratty Little Sister is too overdone, as well as Very Bad Girl (used to be a poster here).

Any suggestions for fun names to call girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Second cousin
Grandma
Trouser Snake Tamer
My new friend...

I dunno...
 

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Anything that makes them feel diminutive usually works. Baby and babe work well for me. Kid is good too. I once called a girl baby and she got all excited and shouted "I am a baby!" Nuts.
 

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I usually make fun of their names in a sense. Like if they have a unisexual name like Alex(Alexandra) I call them "Al" or straight up "alexander"....then again, thats just me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Call them by some other name. Act like you forgot what they said it was.

You: Hey, <friend's name>, this Mary.
Her: That's not my name. It's Laquisha (or ****onya, ****head, or whatever the hoe's name is) .
 

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If you give an HB a nickname make sure you are at least fvcking her. The last thing she needs to see you as asexual teddy bear that gives her cute nickname but doesn't sleep with her (just like her gay friends).

I keep my nicknames all sexual. If I feel up a chick's breasts and they are warm like cupcakes out of the oven, I tell her that this is going to be her nickname from now on because of this and call her "cupcake". If she's got a hotass I will call her "hot buns" etc...

This way when I call her nickname in public, she will know why I call her that and think sexual thoughts.
 

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This is a joking nickname, like ****y and Funny nicknames, to make fun of them.
 

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DJDamage said:
If you give an HB a nickname make sure you are at least fvcking her. The last thing she needs to see you as asexual teddy bear that gives her cute nickname but doesn't sleep with her (just like her gay friends).

I keep my nicknames all sexual. If I feel up a chick's breasts and they are warm like cupcakes out of the oven, I tell her that this is going to be her nickname from now on because of this and call her "cupcake". If she's got a hotass I will call her "hot buns" etc...

This way when I call her nickname in public, she will know why I call her that and think sexual thoughts.
haha good advice :up:
 

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Yeah I think I better let this girl earn a nickname first and I'm going to let her know that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ricky said:
Yeah I think I better let this girl earn a nickname first and I'm going to let her know that.
That's the ticket. You can always find a good sexual nickname to keep it between the two of you even in public places and leave other people scratching their heads for its meaning. I used to know a chick that loved it when I slapped her ass , that is why I told her that her nickname from now on is going to be "Spanky" and she loved it.
 

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I've used "Squirt" a few time with a some pretty good success. I never tell them why I decided to start calling them Squirt out of the blue but it is fun if they ever live up to the name. They get it after that point and always wonder how I knew. Sometimes I'm just lucky. ;)
 

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Ricky said:
I'm looking for some good new nicknames for HB's

Bratty Little Sister is too overdone, as well as Very Bad Girl (used to be a poster here).

Any suggestions for fun names to call girls?
"Hey, you in the bushes!"
 
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