"niceguy" problems

[lucky13]

so i was just talking to this girl, and she was talking about how nice i treated her (shes been having problems lately) now is taht a bad thing? (thinkin it is) and so how do i get out of that? i want to treat her nice because i really like her and think she deserves to be treated nice, but i dont want to be put in that "friends" category... whats some stuff i could do? any help?

 

[Docs]

Yeah...that's bad.

Have you flirted at all with her....ever? If not, you damn well better start.
(It'll take time for her to come around...if it even has a chance in hell of happening)

 

[MAVER1CK]

Being nice is fine.. Just make sure she knows you wont stick around for the friendship.

Make sure you tell her shes sexy, and you find her very attractive.

Make her know you want her ass.. and NOT just her mind

 

[lucky13]

yea weve flirted quite abit before, just not lately =/

haha alright next time we talk ill be sure to call her sexy, and very attractive thanks

 

[sparky0000]

i think you are doomed. every single girl that i desire seems to want me badly. i don't have to worry about whether she desires me or not. it is pretty obvious from very early on. i feel that if she doesn't act entirely interested, she must not really want you.

 

[sanyo7878]

whatever you do, don't become her emotional tampon. I'm in that situation right now. It sucks. If she asks you about emotional issues she's having (especially about other dudes) please don't talk to her about it. I made that mistake. I had such a case of one-itis and AFC i thought it was the only way to get close to this girl... what do i have to show for it now??? a girl that asks me about her guy problems. Good luck brotha.