"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nice guy vrs. jerk

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I liked this girl (a little) last year when she had a bf from another school. We were always good friends so you'd think my chance to hook up with her was blown. But then I just stopped talking to her. I wouldn't answer her calls, or even say hi when I saw her. She dumped her bf, and everybody told me that she liked me SO much. I didn't believe them until she admitted it to me!

Anyway, she came to my game yesterday and afterwards we talked for like an hour and a half, mostly about nice guy vrs. jerks. She said that ALL girls only like overly nice guys and that it is a girls dream to have a guy be extremely nice to her all the time. We argued about it a while and I wanted to show her what happenned with me and her (she started to like me only when I stopped talking to her.) I think she only said that so I would be nice to her again. But I just LOVE watching her puzzled and confused. :D

Should I start being nice to her or remain the jerk that has gotten her chasing me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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read the bible...read pook's "Be a Man". don't be a jerk but dont let her walk all over you and shower her in compliments. be a man, do what you feel like doing instead of becoming her emotional tampon.
 
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Yeah I definitely do NOT let her walk all over me at all, maybe I should start being nicer tho? I couldn't believe she was arguing with me that girls hate jerks and prefer men that are extremely nice to them! She only liked me when I started ignoring her!
 
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Originally posted by kiz
read the bible...read pook's "Be a Man". don't be a jerk but dont let her walk all over you and shower her in compliments. be a man, do what you feel like doing instead of becoming her emotional tampon.
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nuff said

don't listen to girls, they are lying conceiving b*tches
 
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