"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice guy vrs. jerk

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I liked this girl (a little) last year when she had a bf from another school. We were always good friends so you'd think my chance to hook up with her was blown. But then I just stopped talking to her. I wouldn't answer her calls, or even say hi when I saw her. She dumped her bf, and everybody told me that she liked me SO much. I didn't believe them until she admitted it to me!

Anyway, she came to my game yesterday and afterwards we talked for like an hour and a half, mostly about nice guy vrs. jerks. She said that ALL girls only like overly nice guys and that it is a girls dream to have a guy be extremely nice to her all the time. We argued about it a while and I wanted to show her what happenned with me and her (she started to like me only when I stopped talking to her.) I think she only said that so I would be nice to her again. But I just LOVE watching her puzzled and confused. :D

Should I start being nice to her or remain the jerk that has gotten her chasing me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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read the bible...read pook's "Be a Man". don't be a jerk but dont let her walk all over you and shower her in compliments. be a man, do what you feel like doing instead of becoming her emotional tampon.
 
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Yeah I definitely do NOT let her walk all over me at all, maybe I should start being nicer tho? I couldn't believe she was arguing with me that girls hate jerks and prefer men that are extremely nice to them! She only liked me when I started ignoring her!
 
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Originally posted by kiz
read the bible...read pook's "Be a Man". don't be a jerk but dont let her walk all over you and shower her in compliments. be a man, do what you feel like doing instead of becoming her emotional tampon.
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nuff said

don't listen to girls, they are lying conceiving b*tches
 
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