"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice Guy Music vs. "Jerk" Music

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damn never knew so many people were into that Rap/Trance combo, that **** describes me so well. I mean I listen to all types of music, theres always something good for every occasion.

But when im speeding in my benz nothing beats bumping loud rap or trance while feeling the rush of air against my face, while the sun is bright and the air is crisp, days like that make me so ****ing happy that im alive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here you go labelling stuff as 'DJ' or 'AFC' again. I hate labels.
I listen to rap (although none of that Chingy, Lil' Jon, P. Diddy crap, I go with Aesop Rock, Cannibal Ox, Beastie Boys, El-P, Deltron 3030, RJD2 etc.), black/folk/viking metal, hard rock etc. And a lot of other genres, I like Miles Davis, Asian Dub Foundation etc.
 

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lol, what the hell is Viking Metal? I picture a bunch of vikings aboard a ship thrashing away on electric guitars and screaming incomprehensible lyrics about tales of the high seas.
 

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Actually it's freaking awesome. And your depiction is not far from the truth, hehe. Imagine majestic and epic norse melodies with devastating guitar riffs accompanied by traditional norse instruments and mad vocals. Prime example song: Thyrfing - Mjölner. Bands like Thyrfing, Asmegin, Einherjer, Finntroll, Falkenbach, Skyforger, Turisas, Mithotyn etc. rock the house.
 

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This thread makes me think about my previous tastes in music...

Before I came to this site, I listend almost exclusively to that pop-punk stuff. After being on the site for a while, I turned to rap. Then I turned to hippy music.

Now I listen to Incubus, Primus, and The Music.

It's like I went from "kiddish" stuff to thug music to lazy music to whatever genre this is. I detest rap for the most part, rarely listen to pop-punk, and got more turned on to rock and such. Oddly enough, the difference in music phases correspond to my differences in frame of mind (i.e. immature to border-line ******* to chilled).

I'm not saying I totally agree with the "AFCs listen to this kind of music, DJs listen to this kind" thing, I just thought it was interesting to note this particular correlation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it's as simple as not letting music control your thoughts. don't listen to freakin ***** soft music when your already feeling down, or it'll pull you down more.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Actually it's freaking awesome. And your depiction is not far from the truth, hehe. Imagine majestic and epic norse melodies with devastating guitar riffs accompanied by traditional norse instruments and mad vocals. Prime example song: Thyrfing - Mjölner. Bands like Thyrfing, Asmegin, Einherjer, Finntroll, Falkenbach, Skyforger, Turisas, Mithotyn etc. rock the house.
I like :)
 
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