"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice Guy Music vs. "Jerk" Music

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damn never knew so many people were into that Rap/Trance combo, that **** describes me so well. I mean I listen to all types of music, theres always something good for every occasion.

But when im speeding in my benz nothing beats bumping loud rap or trance while feeling the rush of air against my face, while the sun is bright and the air is crisp, days like that make me so ****ing happy that im alive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Panda 2000

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Here you go labelling stuff as 'DJ' or 'AFC' again. I hate labels.
I listen to rap (although none of that Chingy, Lil' Jon, P. Diddy crap, I go with Aesop Rock, Cannibal Ox, Beastie Boys, El-P, Deltron 3030, RJD2 etc.), black/folk/viking metal, hard rock etc. And a lot of other genres, I like Miles Davis, Asian Dub Foundation etc.
 

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lol, what the hell is Viking Metal? I picture a bunch of vikings aboard a ship thrashing away on electric guitars and screaming incomprehensible lyrics about tales of the high seas.
 

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Actually it's freaking awesome. And your depiction is not far from the truth, hehe. Imagine majestic and epic norse melodies with devastating guitar riffs accompanied by traditional norse instruments and mad vocals. Prime example song: Thyrfing - Mjölner. Bands like Thyrfing, Asmegin, Einherjer, Finntroll, Falkenbach, Skyforger, Turisas, Mithotyn etc. rock the house.
 

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This thread makes me think about my previous tastes in music...

Before I came to this site, I listend almost exclusively to that pop-punk stuff. After being on the site for a while, I turned to rap. Then I turned to hippy music.

Now I listen to Incubus, Primus, and The Music.

It's like I went from "kiddish" stuff to thug music to lazy music to whatever genre this is. I detest rap for the most part, rarely listen to pop-punk, and got more turned on to rock and such. Oddly enough, the difference in music phases correspond to my differences in frame of mind (i.e. immature to border-line ******* to chilled).

I'm not saying I totally agree with the "AFCs listen to this kind of music, DJs listen to this kind" thing, I just thought it was interesting to note this particular correlation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it's as simple as not letting music control your thoughts. don't listen to freakin ***** soft music when your already feeling down, or it'll pull you down more.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Actually it's freaking awesome. And your depiction is not far from the truth, hehe. Imagine majestic and epic norse melodies with devastating guitar riffs accompanied by traditional norse instruments and mad vocals. Prime example song: Thyrfing - Mjölner. Bands like Thyrfing, Asmegin, Einherjer, Finntroll, Falkenbach, Skyforger, Turisas, Mithotyn etc. rock the house.
I like :)
 
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