"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice Ass!

MrLuvr

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I know it is a lame line, but I just wanted to see if I could say it.. and see how it would feel to say it to a girl.

So, I saw this girl at the mall in tight pants bending over the railing looking down. I was walking by anyway, as I walked by I turned around and said "Nice ass!". She looked at me in a shocked kinda way. I just winked and away.

So, there it is.. I said "Nice Ass!" to a strange girl and I didn't shrivel up and DIE!

LOL.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Now she just told her friends what a creepy pig you are LOL. Well done stud, some good networking.

Naaaa, if she thought you were good-looking then probably took what you said as a compliment.
 

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lol. thats not very suave. i think there may be a very few number of girls who might be slightly amused by a rash comment like that, but not many.

dont get me wrong...most chicks love it when you're explicit with them like that...but that comes after you've built a little bit of bond with them, not right off the bat like u did it.

plus, you scurried away afterwards?! what was the point of that?
 

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Dude! I met my last girlfriend when I walked up to her and grabbed her a$$. When I got a hold of it I yelled, "Yabba dabba doo!!!!" The rest is history. Props to the two of us.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That shocked kinda way could've been disbelief that a guy would say that, and it prolly was positive. What girl deep down doesn't want to know she got a nice ass? They prolly fake to be shocked just to test you ;-)
 

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You gotta have status and a bit of balls to pull this off and it helps to be decent and good looking too.. There's alot more context behind all these moves than the post will tell.
 

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sparky0000 said:
Dude! I met my last girlfriend when I walked up to her and grabbed her a$$. When I got a hold of it I yelled, "Yabba dabba doo!!!!" The rest is history. Props to the two of us.
LOL!!!!! "yabba dabba doo!!!"!!

I hope the rest of your posts are as funny as that cuz im gonna check. . . .
 

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MacDiddy said:
You gotta have status and a bit of balls to pull this off and it helps to be decent and good looking too.. There's alot more context behind all these moves than the post will tell.
Well, I did not feel that I had the balls to pull it off. That is exactly why I did it. I want to get to the point where I have the balls to do it.

I said it casually as I was walking by, so that it would be least confrontational and the to be honest, easier. Plus, it was in a mall, so a bit risky in case she got really pissed.

The whole point was to get over the fear of saying it.. even though I know it is a pretty lame line.
 
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