"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pm856

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Hey fellas.

So i've been dating this friend for a while. Like 2 months and we have had regular sex like once a week. Its been good but then i might have shown her too much interest lately altough it didnt change anything first.

But i notice a pull back lately. She doesnt initiate but keeps the conversation running and seem interested and wants to meet up when i mention it. She even pit herself in my orbit last week in some ways.

The thing is that i hate being persistent when i feel she is not working on it. I mean she is available there behind her phone and she could at least initiate something (she was doing this a couple of weeks ago).

Now she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back (im off town) but honestly i feel like pulling back this week too (so it turns two weeks without meeting up) or just pull away altogether. She got strong game and i know im high value so it feels like im wasting time or just reduce my damn value for this ****. Its just the feeling i get. What would ya guys do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Velasco

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she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back
you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
 

Pm856

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you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
So true bro. So best to not set the date this week or maybe ask her for a favour in conjunction to what i'll be doing anyways?
 
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