"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pm856

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Hey fellas.

So i've been dating this friend for a while. Like 2 months and we have had regular sex like once a week. Its been good but then i might have shown her too much interest lately altough it didnt change anything first.

But i notice a pull back lately. She doesnt initiate but keeps the conversation running and seem interested and wants to meet up when i mention it. She even pit herself in my orbit last week in some ways.

The thing is that i hate being persistent when i feel she is not working on it. I mean she is available there behind her phone and she could at least initiate something (she was doing this a couple of weeks ago).

Now she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back (im off town) but honestly i feel like pulling back this week too (so it turns two weeks without meeting up) or just pull away altogether. She got strong game and i know im high value so it feels like im wasting time or just reduce my damn value for this ****. Its just the feeling i get. What would ya guys do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Velasco

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she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back
you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
 

Pm856

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you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
So true bro. So best to not set the date this week or maybe ask her for a favour in conjunction to what i'll be doing anyways?
 
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