"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pm856

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Hey fellas.

So i've been dating this friend for a while. Like 2 months and we have had regular sex like once a week. Its been good but then i might have shown her too much interest lately altough it didnt change anything first.

But i notice a pull back lately. She doesnt initiate but keeps the conversation running and seem interested and wants to meet up when i mention it. She even pit herself in my orbit last week in some ways.

The thing is that i hate being persistent when i feel she is not working on it. I mean she is available there behind her phone and she could at least initiate something (she was doing this a couple of weeks ago).

Now she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back (im off town) but honestly i feel like pulling back this week too (so it turns two weeks without meeting up) or just pull away altogether. She got strong game and i know im high value so it feels like im wasting time or just reduce my damn value for this ****. Its just the feeling i get. What would ya guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Velasco

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she knows im gonna set a date this coming week when i get back
you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
 

Pm856

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you don't want to reach the stage where she knows what your gonna do/knows where your gonna take her to eat/how (and where) your gonna fck her. that's when the game is over to her. its boring/predictable. and i know you intuitively feel this too.
So true bro. So best to not set the date this week or maybe ask her for a favour in conjunction to what i'll be doing anyways?
 
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