Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So yeah a girl in my college math class that i thought was hot talked to me the other day out of nowhere. About my tattoos and stuff, i introduced myself and she did as well, then we went back to paying attention to the teacher. I was thinking about just asking her with a note to get some coffee, since our teacher is a nazi. Is this lame or what?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Swede54
So yeah a girl in my college math class that i thought was hot talked to me the other day out of nowhere. About my tattoos and stuff, i introduced myself and she did as well, then we went back to paying attention to the teacher. I was thinking about just asking her with a note to get some coffee, since our teacher is a nazi. Is this lame or what?
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why not just wait till after class..

if you've both got a break for an hour or something, just say, hey, lets go grab some coffee..

or, if your a bit shy..

hey, can you help me with this maths problem? we'll go grab a coffee..
 
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Problems with those scenarios is she walks out pretty fast after class, and we have no breaks in the class.
 
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So what if she walks fast out of class? Talk to her while she is leaving or right after the class ends. There has to be some time there.
 
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i would try and ask her before class starts if she sits near you. Or try better to catch her on her way out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: Re: Re: Next move?

Originally posted by 007~JC
Yeah something like that. But if you are gonna meet up make sure you have an alterior plan to isolate her so you guys are in private.

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other then going to get coffee i got no ideas.
 
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