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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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So yeah a girl in my college math class that i thought was hot talked to me the other day out of nowhere. About my tattoos and stuff, i introduced myself and she did as well, then we went back to paying attention to the teacher. I was thinking about just asking her with a note to get some coffee, since our teacher is a nazi. Is this lame or what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Swede54
So yeah a girl in my college math class that i thought was hot talked to me the other day out of nowhere. About my tattoos and stuff, i introduced myself and she did as well, then we went back to paying attention to the teacher. I was thinking about just asking her with a note to get some coffee, since our teacher is a nazi. Is this lame or what?
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why not just wait till after class..

if you've both got a break for an hour or something, just say, hey, lets go grab some coffee..

or, if your a bit shy..

hey, can you help me with this maths problem? we'll go grab a coffee..
 
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Problems with those scenarios is she walks out pretty fast after class, and we have no breaks in the class.
 
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So what if she walks fast out of class? Talk to her while she is leaving or right after the class ends. There has to be some time there.
 
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i would try and ask her before class starts if she sits near you. Or try better to catch her on her way out.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Re: Re: Next move?

Originally posted by 007~JC
Yeah something like that. But if you are gonna meet up make sure you have an alterior plan to isolate her so you guys are in private.

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other then going to get coffee i got no ideas.
 
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