I think most of the guys here bring value, some bring a lot some bring very little. Part of what will help anybody coming to this forum is looking into certain topics from individual posters. I like a lot of what @stormrider posts but my ears perk up when he posts about dominance as I have seen from my own life experiences that without that you are lost. I also like a lot of @Epic Days posts and especially like his posts on female nature and the importance of genuine sexual desire for once that is gone it is time to move on. Another member whose posts I enjoy is @Spaz , especially his advice on the importance of building strength as a man. These are three examples but their are other posters whos thoughts I value. The best way to look at this forum is to take the advice given and then go into the lab known as the real world and see what works for you and what doesn't. Make mental notes and get rid of what doesn't work. The women will let you know what doesn't work, just don't be like some of the posters that I have read here that can't seem to take a hint.