You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Face or ass?Weezy said:Would you next a chick if she slapped you in a heated argument?
Face, she was in full blown princess mode, throwing a fit cause she wasn't happy with me moving her golf ball, I walked to the next hole and just ignored her. She came up and we started arguing. I told her if she was going to act like a little *****, then I was going to treat her like one.YogurtSlinger said:Face or ass?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Warrior74 said:I probably would have put her in a full nelson for that. Hey, at least I didn't hit her. More women should have wrestling moves put on them for getting out of pocket. I don't think a Figure Four is domestic abuse. LOL. The young me probably would of beat her ass, the adult me would just walk away.
Weezy said:Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX