"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Next a LTR for Slapping You?

Weezy

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Would you next a chick if she slapped you in a heated argument?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Any sane intelligent person male or female will immediately next a partner that uses physical violence as a means of conflict resolution.

Desperate AFC male chumps who don't believe they'll be able to get any other woman if they lose their current one and sicko women that feel they deserve to be beaten deep down and get off on that will put up with that sort of treatment from their significant other but no human of worth will.

The slap that you next a b!tch over is one where she is trying to inflict physical pain on you to end an argument and the slap is clearly given with enough force so as to try and take your head off.

This kind of slap is not to be mistaken with consentual playful flirtation type slaps where say some foreign broad gives you a gentle slap across the face because you and she are getting into some hot and heavy flirting or the multiple slaps on some chick's ass during incredibly raunchy extremely athletic and enthusiastic sex that both parties clearly indicate they are enjoying.

So lets review...

1. Playful consentual non pain inducing slaps can be ok depending on your personality and whether you enjoy that sort of thing.

And

2. Slaps intended to take your head off and induce physical pain as means of punishment or to end an argument are never ok...specifically what I mean by that is once such a slap occurs the relationship needs to end and never resume again.
 

Cinamon

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I agree with KontrollerX, there is no excuse for violence in a relationship, unless its the odd playful spanking. I think you should next her, its a lesson to be learnt on her part, never to do it again to anyone.
 

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YogurtSlinger said:
Face or ass?
Face, she was in full blown princess mode, throwing a fit cause she wasn't happy with me moving her golf ball, I walked to the next hole and just ignored her. She came up and we started arguing. I told her if she was going to act like a little *****, then I was going to treat her like one.

Then she hit me as hard as she could across the face with everything she had. Never seen anything like it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I probably would have put her in a full nelson for that. Hey, at least I didn't hit her. More women should have wrestling moves put on them for getting out of pocket. I don't think a Figure Four is domestic abuse. LOL. The young me probably would of beat her ass, the adult me would just walk away.
 

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Dude, if a girl slaps you, and for such a trivial reason, I would push her off and tell her to "GTFO" and leave if she doesn't. No contact, nothing. IF she comes back apologising and such, then maybe give her a second chance.

But don't take this kind of sh*t. It's the ****in "men shouldn't hit women" that gives women the balls to do this crap, since they know most men won't hit back or something.

Effing kunts.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I probably would have put her in a full nelson for that. Hey, at least I didn't hit her. More women should have wrestling moves put on them for getting out of pocket. I don't think a Figure Four is domestic abuse. LOL. The young me probably would of beat her ass, the adult me would just walk away.

Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX
 
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Warrior74

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Weezy said:
Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX

Awesome.
 
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