You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Face or ass?Weezy said:Would you next a chick if she slapped you in a heated argument?
Face, she was in full blown princess mode, throwing a fit cause she wasn't happy with me moving her golf ball, I walked to the next hole and just ignored her. She came up and we started arguing. I told her if she was going to act like a little *****, then I was going to treat her like one.YogurtSlinger said:Face or ass?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Warrior74 said:I probably would have put her in a full nelson for that. Hey, at least I didn't hit her. More women should have wrestling moves put on them for getting out of pocket. I don't think a Figure Four is domestic abuse. LOL. The young me probably would of beat her ass, the adult me would just walk away.
Weezy said:Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX