"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next a LTR for Slapping You?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
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Desperate AFC male chumps who don't believe they'll be able to get any other woman if they lose their current one and sicko women that feel they deserve to be beaten deep down and get off on that will put up with that sort of treatment from their significant other but no human of worth will.
The slap that you next a b!tch over is one where she is trying to inflict physical pain on you to end an argument and the slap is clearly given with enough force so as to try and take your head off.
This kind of slap is not to be mistaken with consentual playful flirtation type slaps where say some foreign broad gives you a gentle slap across the face because you and she are getting into some hot and heavy flirting or the multiple slaps on some chick's ass during incredibly raunchy extremely athletic and enthusiastic sex that both parties clearly indicate they are enjoying.
So lets review...
1. Playful consentual non pain inducing slaps can be ok depending on your personality and whether you enjoy that sort of thing.
And
2. Slaps intended to take your head off and induce physical pain as means of punishment or to end an argument are never ok...specifically what I mean by that is once such a slap occurs the relationship needs to end and never resume again.
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Face or ass?Weezy said:Would you next a chick if she slapped you in a heated argument?
Face, she was in full blown princess mode, throwing a fit cause she wasn't happy with me moving her golf ball, I walked to the next hole and just ignored her. She came up and we started arguing. I told her if she was going to act like a little *****, then I was going to treat her like one.YogurtSlinger said:Face or ass?
Then she hit me as hard as she could across the face with everything she had. Never seen anything like it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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But don't take this kind of sh*t. It's the ****in "men shouldn't hit women" that gives women the balls to do this crap, since they know most men won't hit back or something.
Effing kunts.
Warrior74 said:I probably would have put her in a full nelson for that. Hey, at least I didn't hit her. More women should have wrestling moves put on them for getting out of pocket. I don't think a Figure Four is domestic abuse. LOL. The young me probably would of beat her ass, the adult me would just walk away.
Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX
Weezy said:Pretty much that's what I did. I put her in a head lock and told her not to ever do that sh1t again or I would hit her back next time. She is now an EX
Awesome.