"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hi there everyone
as u can c im a noob here and i need some opinions from more experienced ppl like u guys
u see there is this girl, we been kinda messin around n stuff and recently, we didnt see or talk to each other coz i had to leave town for a month.
and after i came bak, she came around wanted to hangout with me so we did...
anyways, that was only couple of days ago, and earier today i smsd her to drink up with me tonite..and she didnt give me clear cut yes/no answer but she said she was working, so i was like 'come on its a weekend, lets jus get drunk!' then came her reply saying 'just leave me alone, i really need to finish my work'

i feel like im not in conrol of this whole thing and she doesnt like me for some reason..not that i care but she can b a real fun person to hangout with.

what do you guys think? am i over-analyzing? i dont think its a space issue coz we barely see each other these days:cuss:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She sounds pretty busy to me
 
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Tomatoes said:
She sounds pretty busy to me
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ya..but it just feels weird that instead just saying 'im busy', she said 'leave me alone'...coz she usually doesnt talk like that to me
 
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I'd base it on how she said it...I mean reading her non-verbal communication. Personally I wouldn't call her after she said that to me unless I was really into her. She'd have to contact me the next time she wanted to hang out.
 
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Fuglydude said:
I'd base it on how she said it...I mean reading her non-verbal communication. Personally I wouldn't call her after she said that to me unless I was really into her. She'd have to contact me the next time she wanted to hang out.
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thnx..i will do that

anyone else with advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chandidas said:
thnx..i will do that

anyone else with advice?
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I advise you to learn how to communicate. Stop writing in that Messenger shorthand. It's real annoying, and many people here will not even read your post because of it. You'll miss out on a lot of good advice.

Men communicate in full sentences with reasonably decent spelling, and as a result they garner respect from others. You probably are offended and don't think it matters, but trust me, it does.
 
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Please see my topic about "pinging".
 
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Ghengis Kahn said:
I advise you to learn how to communicate. Stop writing in that Messenger shorthand. It's real annoying, and many people here will not even read your post because of it. You'll miss out on a lot of good advice.

Men communicate in full sentences with reasonably decent spelling, and as a result they garner respect from others. You probably are offended and don't think it matters, but trust me, it does.
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sorry to offend you with my shorthand spelling

however, as for talking about communicating, as long as one can understand another, the main objective of communication is reached.

as you say, people who get offended by others' spelling/grammar/punctuation mistakes or shorthand writings should serious reflect themselves and ask yourselves why you are getting angry over little things like that.

I'm not offended however, i appreciate your feed back and will try to post future threads in more decent manner...with less shorthand writing; it's just very surprising to see how some people take little things seriously...some people just need to relax a bit!

by the way, its ghengis KHAN not kahn...:crazy: thanks a lot spelling nazi!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fuglydude said:
I'd base it on how she said it...I mean reading her non-verbal communication. Personally I wouldn't call her after she said that to me unless I was really into her. She'd have to contact me the next time she wanted to hang out.
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He said it was through a text message so there isn't any non-verbal communication. Whether or not he is into her should not be an issue, because then he is getting emotions in the way of what is real.

If you want to remain in control of the situation then cut her off and don't say anything more to her. Let her come back to you. If she really was interested I think she would have said something other than "leave me alone," because that doesn't look good in any situation.
 
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