"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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looking to polish myself a bit being a freshman, trying to find myself with everything diminishing around me. I kind of got a bad rep long story short I am thought to be a druggie/drug dealer. People think my eyes are always squinty example, I am all the way to the right

Looking to get with some girls!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
Whats a respectable sport? And journal? I would forget about it. I lack follow through.
 

RiceandChicken

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HS or college fresh?

Anyways, try to keep a journal. It can surely be hard, heck I struggle keeping mine(nothing has really happened for me so nothing to really update :/..

But yes, find a sport, respectable sports girls will respect ya for are: football, basketball, baseball, maybe soccer and track.

Try to ease up on the drugs bruh. It's alright to smoke a blunt here and there but don't let It be your dependent.

Read the book of pook, take a look at some of the high school sticky threads. See what you like and take what you can from it.

To get you started in all this, start doing some approaches on girls, and basically figure what you have/don't have. Don't let your facial qualities stop you man. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Stay healthy. Get swoll. Girls love guys who take care of their bodies.

That's basically it from me. Do start a journal. Will help ya keep tally of what you're doing/not doing/getting constructive criticism from members on this board. Anyways, that's about it. I'm off. Good luck brah.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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