"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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looking to polish myself a bit being a freshman, trying to find myself with everything diminishing around me. I kind of got a bad rep long story short I am thought to be a druggie/drug dealer. People think my eyes are always squinty example, I am all the way to the right

Looking to get with some girls!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
Whats a respectable sport? And journal? I would forget about it. I lack follow through.
 

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HS or college fresh?

Anyways, try to keep a journal. It can surely be hard, heck I struggle keeping mine(nothing has really happened for me so nothing to really update :/..

But yes, find a sport, respectable sports girls will respect ya for are: football, basketball, baseball, maybe soccer and track.

Try to ease up on the drugs bruh. It's alright to smoke a blunt here and there but don't let It be your dependent.

Read the book of pook, take a look at some of the high school sticky threads. See what you like and take what you can from it.

To get you started in all this, start doing some approaches on girls, and basically figure what you have/don't have. Don't let your facial qualities stop you man. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Stay healthy. Get swoll. Girls love guys who take care of their bodies.

That's basically it from me. Do start a journal. Will help ya keep tally of what you're doing/not doing/getting constructive criticism from members on this board. Anyways, that's about it. I'm off. Good luck brah.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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