HS or college fresh?
Anyways, try to keep a journal. It can surely be hard, heck I struggle keeping mine(nothing has really happened for me so nothing to really update :/..
But yes, find a sport, respectable sports girls will respect ya for are: football, basketball, baseball, maybe soccer and track.
Try to ease up on the drugs bruh. It's alright to smoke a blunt here and there but don't let It be your dependent.
Read the book of pook, take a look at some of the high school sticky threads. See what you like and take what you can from it.
To get you started in all this, start doing some approaches on girls, and basically figure what you have/don't have. Don't let your facial qualities stop you man. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Stay healthy. Get swoll. Girls love guys who take care of their bodies.
That's basically it from me. Do start a journal. Will help ya keep tally of what you're doing/not doing/getting constructive criticism from members on this board. Anyways, that's about it. I'm off. Good luck brah.