"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JBozz

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looking to polish myself a bit being a freshman, trying to find myself with everything diminishing around me. I kind of got a bad rep long story short I am thought to be a druggie/drug dealer. People think my eyes are always squinty example, I am all the way to the right

Looking to get with some girls!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
Whats a respectable sport? And journal? I would forget about it. I lack follow through.
 

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HS or college fresh?

Anyways, try to keep a journal. It can surely be hard, heck I struggle keeping mine(nothing has really happened for me so nothing to really update :/..

But yes, find a sport, respectable sports girls will respect ya for are: football, basketball, baseball, maybe soccer and track.

Try to ease up on the drugs bruh. It's alright to smoke a blunt here and there but don't let It be your dependent.

Read the book of pook, take a look at some of the high school sticky threads. See what you like and take what you can from it.

To get you started in all this, start doing some approaches on girls, and basically figure what you have/don't have. Don't let your facial qualities stop you man. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Stay healthy. Get swoll. Girls love guys who take care of their bodies.

That's basically it from me. Do start a journal. Will help ya keep tally of what you're doing/not doing/getting constructive criticism from members on this board. Anyways, that's about it. I'm off. Good luck brah.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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