"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JBozz

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looking to polish myself a bit being a freshman, trying to find myself with everything diminishing around me. I kind of got a bad rep long story short I am thought to be a druggie/drug dealer. People think my eyes are always squinty example, I am all the way to the right

Looking to get with some girls!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly

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Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Find a sport. Work at your skills at it, play hard.

Go to parties. Maybe bring drugs if the mood is right, but really try to tone that down.

Be a positive person.

Keep a journal.
Whats a respectable sport? And journal? I would forget about it. I lack follow through.
 

RiceandChicken

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HS or college fresh?

Anyways, try to keep a journal. It can surely be hard, heck I struggle keeping mine(nothing has really happened for me so nothing to really update :/..

But yes, find a sport, respectable sports girls will respect ya for are: football, basketball, baseball, maybe soccer and track.

Try to ease up on the drugs bruh. It's alright to smoke a blunt here and there but don't let It be your dependent.

Read the book of pook, take a look at some of the high school sticky threads. See what you like and take what you can from it.

To get you started in all this, start doing some approaches on girls, and basically figure what you have/don't have. Don't let your facial qualities stop you man. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Stay healthy. Get swoll. Girls love guys who take care of their bodies.

That's basically it from me. Do start a journal. Will help ya keep tally of what you're doing/not doing/getting constructive criticism from members on this board. Anyways, that's about it. I'm off. Good luck brah.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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