"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey. I'm not sure if I chose the right subject but I need a little advice.

I'm a student recently graduated from High School and I'm right now in abroad studying the local language.

Everyday I see tons of beautiful girls and I feel like... wow. I do feel confident and I do feel like I'm totally able to pull this off. I can talk to strangers.. no problem. I can ask for directions and stuff. But mostly when I really need it. I've never appraoched someone beacuse of interest or attraction.

But the problem is... maybe an excuse. Is that my ability to speak the local language is not good and I don't know if I should use english... beacuse I do look like a local.

Maybe you guys can give a little advice on how to appraoch people with my little language barrier problem?

Thanks!

oh btw.
Guys... I need your help.

I'm about to meet a girl in real life I met online, beacuse... well. I cannot properly meet people properly on the streets beacuse of language barrier, but the girl I'm about to meet can speak english.

Any recommendation?
What should I do to get her? Beacuse she is quite good looking.

I;ve read a lot of this PUA stuff and its all over my head. I think I can do it. the push-pull thing. Dis-interest thing... but idk.

Can someone explain in detail how do you get a girl attracted to you if you are not the BEST looking guy out there? I'm like a little average looking I think haha

I dont want to be a one of those guys, I want to be the guy!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bookman

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it would have helped more if you mentioned where are you, maybe there are some locals of that country on this forum that can give you some insights. English is spoken all over the world, how much of a barrier could it be?
 
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