"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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beyondwtf

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Hey. I'm not sure if I chose the right subject but I need a little advice.

I'm a student recently graduated from High School and I'm right now in abroad studying the local language.

Everyday I see tons of beautiful girls and I feel like... wow. I do feel confident and I do feel like I'm totally able to pull this off. I can talk to strangers.. no problem. I can ask for directions and stuff. But mostly when I really need it. I've never appraoched someone beacuse of interest or attraction.

But the problem is... maybe an excuse. Is that my ability to speak the local language is not good and I don't know if I should use english... beacuse I do look like a local.

Maybe you guys can give a little advice on how to appraoch people with my little language barrier problem?

Thanks!

oh btw.
Guys... I need your help.

I'm about to meet a girl in real life I met online, beacuse... well. I cannot properly meet people properly on the streets beacuse of language barrier, but the girl I'm about to meet can speak english.

Any recommendation?
What should I do to get her? Beacuse she is quite good looking.

I;ve read a lot of this PUA stuff and its all over my head. I think I can do it. the push-pull thing. Dis-interest thing... but idk.

Can someone explain in detail how do you get a girl attracted to you if you are not the BEST looking guy out there? I'm like a little average looking I think haha

I dont want to be a one of those guys, I want to be the guy!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bookman

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it would have helped more if you mentioned where are you, maybe there are some locals of that country on this forum that can give you some insights. English is spoken all over the world, how much of a barrier could it be?
 
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