"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Newbie willing to learn!

B

beyondwtf

New Member
Joined
Feb 25, 2010
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Hey. I'm not sure if I chose the right subject but I need a little advice.

I'm a student recently graduated from High School and I'm right now in abroad studying the local language.

Everyday I see tons of beautiful girls and I feel like... wow. I do feel confident and I do feel like I'm totally able to pull this off. I can talk to strangers.. no problem. I can ask for directions and stuff. But mostly when I really need it. I've never appraoched someone beacuse of interest or attraction.

But the problem is... maybe an excuse. Is that my ability to speak the local language is not good and I don't know if I should use english... beacuse I do look like a local.

Maybe you guys can give a little advice on how to appraoch people with my little language barrier problem?

Thanks!

oh btw.
Guys... I need your help.

I'm about to meet a girl in real life I met online, beacuse... well. I cannot properly meet people properly on the streets beacuse of language barrier, but the girl I'm about to meet can speak english.

Any recommendation?
What should I do to get her? Beacuse she is quite good looking.

I;ve read a lot of this PUA stuff and its all over my head. I think I can do it. the push-pull thing. Dis-interest thing... but idk.

Can someone explain in detail how do you get a girl attracted to you if you are not the BEST looking guy out there? I'm like a little average looking I think haha

I dont want to be a one of those guys, I want to be the guy!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

B

bookman

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2009
Messages
90
Reaction score
1
it would have helped more if you mentioned where are you, maybe there are some locals of that country on this forum that can give you some insights. English is spoken all over the world, how much of a barrier could it be?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top